Showing posts with label school. Show all posts
Showing posts with label school. Show all posts

Wednesday, August 11, 2010

My bit.....

So this morning one of my friends put for her status on facebook:

"I think it's sad how "excited" parents are about school starting soon. When did our children switch from blessing to burden??"

This is a friend that I've known for 11 years, and she and her husband are big time advocates for homeschooling as they homeschool their children. So it kind of upset me b/c I hate the rift there is between homeschooling and public schooling. (we will leave private school out b/c they generally are in a category of their own) The assumption with her status is that if you are excited to send your kids away to school then you see you kids as a burden. I don't want to dwell on this b/c it is a sensitive issue that can be divisive and is not a salvation issue. But I do want to say that I wish both sides would support the other and not think more highly of themselves for choosing one or the other. Just b/c you homeschool doesn't mean you are more spiritual or love your children more and on the other side just b/c you choose public school doesn't mean you are more spiritual or love your children more. We are in this together, fighting the good fight, trying to win people to Christ. I wish the big picture would be what we see, the reason we are here: to love God and to love His people. Whatever method you choose to educate your children, you have to be involved, and you still have the responsibility to teach your children about God. I know families on both sides that do an amazing job and have amazing children.

We are excited for school to start. My boys are so excited to go and meet new friends and have new adventures. I am excited for each step of their life, and Jarod and I join them on their journey. We met a lot of great families last year and have had ministry opportunities b/c of that. I grant you that some people do get excited to ship their kids off for the day but not all families are like that. We are enjoying the adventure of raising our kids, and we look forward to what comes this year.

So let's not let this issue be a ruler of spirituality or love for our children. Let's support one another and encourage each other to raise our children to love God above all else. That's my bit that I felt I needed to get out.....